ear plugs daddy

daddy is going to have to start wearing ear plugs to bed. as i am up with Adler more now than when she was an infant. i am always afraid that Adler's crying is going to wake the house so i get up with her at every fuss and try to calm and quite her. But it is the the point that i did not get to bed till after midnight and was up at 2, 3:55, 4:26, then up for the morning at 6:30. this makes for a very tired mommy. I know that legitimately Adler was prob hungry 1-2 of those times but most of it she just likes being held to sleep and fusses when i put her down. I would like to let her cry it out, but when the house is silent i don't want to wake everyone else so i suffer in silence and stay up and hold and rock and sing to Adler trying to keep her quite and sleeping.