sit with you

one of Adler's most used phrases these days is "sit with you." this is totally fine when we are sitting on the couch just watching some boob-tube. this is annoying when i am trying to eat dinner. Adler says this not as a question or statement but as a demand. if you tell her no or ignore her demand the melt down begins and eventually i give in as i just want the screaming/crying to end. i know this is just SPOILING HER ROTTEN but mommy has to keep her sanity at the same time.